My husband and I are
separated. We have filed for divorce. Where we live you have to be
separated for a year before you can do anything. I have exhausted all
resources trying to save my marriage. Counseling, forgiveness, etc.
He just cannot be faithful or tell the truth is what it boils down to. I
had to make the choice after over 8 years to walk away with my sanity and
pride. I feel like I am ready to start dating again. My girlfriends
tell me it is too soon (he moved out in late March of this year). My male
friends tell me go for it. Is there a time frame I am supposed to
wait? I feel ready to start meeting people again.
Separate and Ready
Dear Separate and Ready,
Are you asking me
permission to start having sex? That is what I am guessing! Only you
know if you are ready. I am not the
person to ask permission to date or have sex.
The bigger question is what did you learned from your failed marriage
and are you going to go into a new “relationship” (I put that in quotes because
I am guessing you are just horny or one of those women who just HAS to be in a
relationship to feel worth anything…which is a whole other rant I could go on)
with old baggage you should have left on the curb or have you grown? Be a big girl and make your own choices.
Kitty
Dear Separate and Ready,
Having never been married I
don’t know what to say. But if you are
looking for a hook up, send me a picture.
Norm
Dear Separate and Ready,
Go for it. Be responsible, guard your children and don't fall in love.
Beulah
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