Stupid Girl...I mean BOY!

Dear Advice Wednesday –

I am a 32 year old man in the South part of the USA.  I have been single for 7 years now.  I am having trouble meeting women that are worth a long term relationship.  I work a lot.  I find it hard to date or see someone more than 1 or 2 times a week with my busy work schedule and social commitments.  I play rugby and softball on teams locally.  I have tried dating from friends hooking me up.  I have tried free and pay sites online.  I thought joining a coed softball team would not only keep me active but I would meet more people that way.  Turns out most of my team mates are couples or in relationships.

What do I do next, I feel like a puss asking as a man for advice on this but there must be a clock in men too.  I feel my age coming on quickly these days.

Lonely Man

Dear Lonley Man –

First thing I want to say is, SHUT THE FUCK UP!  I have girl friends who whine like this about their clock and being lonely.  When you are on this "high horse mission" to find someone you generally end up settling.  


Just sayin.  


I have been there and I hate the past me!!  Enjoy your life and stop acting like a desperate douche woman. I posted a song for you.  Stop acting like a STUPID GIRL.

Kitty

Dear Lonely Man –

I don’t know where to start with you.  Kitty and I talked about your letter this morning and all I can say is, pathetic.  Men and Women like you are one of the reasons for the divorce rate.  Wait it out and it will happen on it’s own.

Norm

Dear Lonely Man -


UMMM scratching my head…You feel like a puss? Maybe because playing sports isn’t the ONLY way to find people and social sites aren’t always the only way to find people! 

Buttercup 

Dear Lonely Man –

There is alot to be said for other social circles like church, volunteering and athletic clubs for cycling and running.  Once you start living your life without needing someone else, well...you will find her then.

Beulah